Last Sunday, we came together and reaffirmed our relationship with Christ. Many of you have asked for the service in its entirety. Below is every word of that service, including the sermon, included in its place in the liturgy. May it remind us of the commitment we made and the hope we have in our God whose love never fails:
O God, Searcher of our hearts,
You have formed us as a people and claimed us for your own.
As we come to acknowledge your sovereignty and grace,
And to enter anew into covenant with you,
Reveal any reluctance or falsehood within us.
Let your Spirit impress your truth on our inmost being,
And receive us in mercy, for the sake of our Mediator, Jesus Christ,
Who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit,
One God, forever and ever,
Litany of Thanksgiving
Let us give thanks for all of God’s mercies.
O God, our Covenant Friend,
You have been gracious to us through all of the years of our lives.
We thank you for your loving care,
Which has filled our days and brought us to this time and place.
We praise your holy name, O God.
You have given us life and reason, and set us in a world filled with your glory.
You have comforted us with family and friends,
And ministered to us through the hands of our sisters and brothers.
We praise your holy name, O God.
You have filled our hearts with a hunger after you,
And have given us your peace.
You have redeemed us, and called us to a high calling in Christ Jesus.
You have given us a place in the fellowship of your Spirit
And the witness of your Church
We praise your holy name, O God.
You have been our light in darkness
And a rock of strength in adversity and temptation
You have been the very Spirit of joy in our joys
And the all-sufficient reward in all our labors
We praise your holy name, O God.
You remembered us when we forgot you
You followed us even when we tried to flee from you
You met us with forgiveness when we returned to you
For all your patience and overflowing grace
We praise your holy name, O God.
Scripture: Deuteronomy 31:9-13
Join me this morning in thinking about your family. Think about your kids, your grandkids, your great-grandkids if you have them. Then think about your brothers and/or sisters, your aunts and uncles, your parents. Remember back to your grandparents, to being in family when you were a kid. What do you remember most about times with those family members?
I remember the warm Christmases and Thanksgivings Dana and I have hosted in our home. I can recall watching Jack Jack learn to walk. I think of warm nights by the fire in our living room, watching a family movie. And most recently, I think of the wonderful days we spent at a cabin this past new year’s just being a family together with no pressures or concerns. I have many warm, fuzzy memories of family. I’m sure you do, too.
I remember hosting family and friends one particular night in our home in Macon. Our house had an open floor plan downstairs, with the living room, dining room, and kitchen all flowing together with large, gracious, archways separating them. Off the kitchen, in the back of the house, was a half-bath. In the front, a fireplace centered the living room. This little architectural tour of my home is important for what comes next.
On this particular night, I was turned, with my back to the fireplace, talking with my dad. The children had been running around screaming, as children are wont to do, and so I had mostly tuned them out. But at this particular moment, I happened to turn around. What first caught my eye was a line of unbroken toilet paper running from the half bath in the back of the house, through the kitchen, through the dining room, around the stairwell and into the living room. There, standing in the living room, shrieking with joy, was one of Jack Jack’s friends, actively throwing the line of toilet paper into the fire place.
Such funny memories are the stuff family stories are made of. Family forms a unique bond, a deep connection, one that we rightly identify as a covenant. Family forms a covenant, one that binds us together through the warm fuzzy memories, the funny stories, and even through the cold, hard, memories.
I have experienced much of the latter. Those cold, hard, memories have a way of freezing themselves on our brain. I bet you can think of many yourself.
The cold, hard, memories begin with my brother Chris. When I think about Chris, I initially recall good times growing up together. As kids, we had a great time playing together with our blocks and our toys. We’d have these huge elaborate forts, wars would break out, hospitals would be constructed: you know, typical boy stuff. We fought quite a bit, but we would always come back together and play, enjoying what we had.
Times changed, though, and we grew apart. For a time, while Chris was in Iraq serving in the Army, we grew closer. We sent letters back and forth and it helped. But when he came home, things were different. Chris and I didn’t talk to each other and neither of us had much relationship with my parents.
Not long after he was gone to war, his relationship, already poor with my parents, seemed to die. And my relationship with my parents fell apart. For a few years, none of us really talked to each other, with months going by at a time without a conversation. My nuclear family, the one that had raised me, seemed to cease to exist. Chris, my parents, and I lost relationship for a bit. On my end, feelings were hurt and I found myself feeling increasingly bitter. The ensuing decade brought with it only more reason to be bitter, angry, and resentful, leading to great strain in my relationship with the family who raised me.
Maybe you can relate. When I first asked you about family, my guess is you first thought of warm fuzzy moments with family, like my memory of playing with my brother during our childhood years. Perhaps you remembered a special Christmas, or birthday party, or the memory of a favorite aunt or grandfather.
Whatever the case, my guess is memories of drama, of difficult moments, weren’t far behind. Family can be the most wonderful, joyful, thing in your life and can, without warning, become the most painful, difficult, grueling aspect of your life. Family is more than the precious moments around the Thanksgiving table, more than the happy moments of graduations and weddings, it’s also the yelling, crying, screaming, moments that happen in kitchens and bedrooms. It’s the phones that don’t ring for years because relationships are strained. It’s the family reunions that cause war to break out when Uncle Fred reminds your dad how he ruined the family. Marriages become estranged, relatives stop talking, children cut off parents and parents rebuke children. Feelings get hurt, bitterness ensues, and the relationship just gets more divided.
And yet, family forms a covenant. When you’re born into a family, you’re a part of that family forever, whether you mean to be or not. Even when we try and leave our families and run away, they’re still a part of who were are. Family has a certain power to keep us connected, to cause us to keep coming back together, even when there’s pain, even when there’s bitterness, even when the history of drama is long and deep; even when the wounds are painful and wide open.
No matter how ridiculous the behavior, no matter how difficult, they remain family. For a time you might cut someone off. For a time you might even reject them. For a decade, until only a few years ago, that was the story for myself, my parents, and my brother. In a family, whether it’s a good family or a bad family, whether it’s a loving family or even a hateful family, there’s a connection that keeps drawing you in, keeps calling you back, that seems inescapable. That’s because family forms a covenant relationship.
Covenant is the point of this scripture. Simply put, covenant means a contract, but it’s more than just a contract like you sign when you buy a house or a car. A covenant is a holy binding together among many individuals. In a family, a covenant comes automatically when born into the family, and in this scripture, covenant came automatically for God’s people. When born into the Israelites, one was born not only into their nuclear family, but also into the family of God. And that covenant, the most important covenant, demonstrates that God desires relationship with his people.
God, the God of the universe, the God that has every right to stay high and lofty, desires to be family with us. Out of that desire, God established covenant with the Israelites, made them God’s family, and then expanded that covenant, through Jesus, to include us. We’re God’s family. And not just in the touchy-feely way that we usually talk about.
Being God’s family is more than the precious moments around the altar table, more than the happy moments of wonderful worship expernecies. Being God’s family means that God enters into all the mess of human family relationships: the yelling, crying, screaming, moments we mentioned before that happen in the kitchens, bedrooms, or even at church. Being in God’s family means that when it’s we who are the problem, when we don’t call for years, when we cause war to break out at family reunions, when we hurt people deeply, when we’re the cause of evil in the world, God still reaches back in love.
That’s the kind of family we have with God. God’s not the favorite uncle that always gave you the special gift, nor is God the crazy Aunt who acted unpredictably, nor is God the vengeful, selfish, mother who hurt you deeply; God is, instead, the patient grandparent who always reached out in love to you, or the wise great-aunt who welcomed everyone into family, no matter how much others had hurt her. God is the one always reaching out for relationship, no matter how much we may have hurt God, no matter how much we may have wronged God. God is that family member you’re thinking of right now who always loved you unconditionally. When things are good, just like when things are good in our families, it’s easy to forget how remarkable it is that we’re in God’s family, that we’re loved by God unconditionally. God’s unconditional love has the power to transform, to renew relationships, to heal wounds, because, in God’s family, love never fails.
Despite the fact that human families may fail. I know in my own experience my family has failed greatly and I imagine you can point to brokenness in your own family. Beyond that, non-family relationships, too, fail all the time: friendships break down, business partnerships fail, contractual relationships break, leaving us feeling that no relationship is ever truly permanent; that love, the kind that’s supposed to be present in covenant relationships, will always, at some point, fail.
And yet, the covenant God makes with us, the covenant we entered into at our baptism, never breaks under strain. It never fails. It never ceases to exist. God’s love endures. Families may fail. Relationships may fail. Contracts may fail. Evil may define too many of our relationships, but God’s covenant relationship with us never fails because God’s unconditional love never fails.
That’s a covenant we can count on. God never fails us. God’s love never fails us. No matter the loss of love we may have experienced in our lives, there’s enough love flowing from God to cover over all the other losses. I say that not just because it’s true, but because I have experienced it. This morning, as we present ourselves before God, I wonder if you’ve experienced God’s love that never fails?
Whether you have or you haven’t, whether God feels close or far away, whatever the hurts or pains you may carry, we have before us this morning tremendous opportunity. We have the chance to renew our relationship with God; that most loving of all relationships from which all blessings flow. We have the chance to be like Moses and the people in Deuteronomy who made a habit of such renewal. Even if you’re the one who has failed God this morning, even if you’re the one who walked away from relationship and broke covenant, God is ready for you to renew this morning.
This covenant, the holy binding of us and God into family, comes with responsibility and joy. While God may never fail in his covenant obligations, we sometimes do. That’s why, this morning, we will remind ourselves of that responsibility, the commitment we make to serve God, to love God, to seek God, with our whole hearts, our whole minds, with all that we are. Part of the service following this sermon will be an opportunity to come forward and recommit yourself to God at the altar by lighting a candle.
We will also, while recommitting ourselves, be reminded of God’s commitment to us. This covenant, this holy binding into Godly family, isn’t just about our commitment to God. God has made commitment to us: that we will always be family, that we will always be welcomed by God, that we will always be in relationship with God, no matter what we do, no matter how long we don’t call, no matter how much yelling we did at God in the kitchen, no matter what. And unlike human commitments, God never fails.
So let’s join together, this morning, beginning 2019 by recommitting ourselves to God’s family, represented by our church family; our family whose founder and head is our brother Jesus Christ. Come, bring yourself to the God who loves you unconditionally, whose relationship never fails.
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit; Amen.
Proclamation of Covenant Renewal
Brothers and sisters in Christ,
The Christian life is redeemed from sin and consecrated to God.
Through baptism, we have entered into this life
And have been added into the new covenant
Of which Jesus Christ is the mediator.
He sealed it with his own blood, that it might last forever.
On the one side, God promises to give us new life in Christ
The Source and Perfecter of our faith.
On the other side, we are pledged
To live no more for ourselves but only for Jesus Christ,
Who loved us and gave himself for us.
From time to time we renew our covenant with God,
Especially when we reaffirm the Baptismal Covenant
And gather at the Lord’s Table.
Today, however, we meet, as the generations before us have met,
To renew the covenant that binds us to God.
Let us make this covenant of God our own.
Invitation to Covenant Renewal
Commit yourselves to Christ as his servants
Give yourselves to him, that you may belong to him.
Christ has many services to be done.
Some are more easy and honorable,
Others are more difficult and disgraceful
Some are suitable to our inclinations and interests,
Others are contrary to both.
In some we may please Christ and please ourselves
But then there are other works where we cannot please Christ
except by denying ourselves.
It is necessary, therefore, that we consider what it means
to be a servant of Christ
Let us, therefore, go to Christ and pray:
Let me be your servant, under your command.
I will no longer be my own.
I will give up myself to your will in all things.
Be satisfied that Christ shall give you your place and work.
Lord, make me what you will.
I put myself fully into your hands:
Put me to doing, put me to suffering,
Let me reemployed for you, or laid aside for you,
Let me be full, let me be empty,
Let me have all things, let me have nothing.
I freely and with a willing heart
Give it all to your pleasure and disposal.
Christ will be the Savior of none but his servants.
He is the source of all salvation to those who obey.
Christ will have no servants except by consent;
Christ will not accept anything except full consent to all he requires.
Christ will be all in all, or he will be nothing.
Confirm this by a holy covenant.
To make this covenant a reality in your life, listen to these admonitions:
First, set apart some time, more than once,
To be spent alone before the Lord;
In seeking earnestly God’s special assistance
And gracious acceptance of you;
In carefully thinking through all the conditions of the covenant;
In searching your hearts whether you have already freely given your life to Christ.
Consider what your sins are.
Consider the laws of Christ, how holy, strict, and spiritual they are,
And whether you, after having carefully considered them,
Are willing to choose them all.
Be sure you are clear in these matters, see that you do not lie to God.
Second, be serious and in a spirit of holy awe and reverence.
Third, claim God’s covenant,
Rely upon God’s promise of giving grace and strength,
So you can keep your promise. Trust not your own strength and power.
Fourth, resolve to be faithful,
You have given to the Lord your hearts,
you have opened your mouths to the Lord,
And you have dedicated yourself to God.
With God’s power, never go back.
And last, be then prepared to renew your covenant with the Lord.
Fall down on your knees, lift your hands toward heaven, open your hearts to the Lord, as we pray:
O righteous God, for the sake of your Son Jesus Christ,
See me as I come humbly before you
Forgive my unfaithfulness in not having done your will,
For you have promised mercy to me
If I turn to you with my whole heart.
God requires that you shall put away all your idols
I here from the bottom of my heart renounce them all,
Covenanting with you that no known sin shall be allowed in my life
Against your will, I have turned my love toward the world.
In your power, I will watch all temptations that will lead me away from you.
For my own righteousness is riddled with sin,
Unable to stand before you.
Through Christ, God has offered to be your God again if you would let him.
Before all heaven and earth
I here acknowledge you as my Lord and God.
I take you, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, for my portion,
And vow to give up myself, body and soul, as your servant,
To serve you in holiness and righteousness all the days of my life.
God has given the Lord Jesus Christ as the only way and means of coming to God
Jesus, I do here humbly accept Christ as the only new and living Way,
And sincerely join myself in a covenant with him.
O blessed Jesus, I come to you,
Hungry, sinful, miserable, blind, and naked
Unworthy even to wash the feet of your servants
I do here, with all my power, accept you as my Lord and Head
I renounce my own worthiness,
And vow that you are the Lord, my righteousness
I renounce my own wisdom, and take you for my only guide.
I renounce my own will, and take your will as my law.
Christ has told you that you must suffer with him
I do here covenant with you, O Christ,
To take my lot with you as it may fall.
Through your grace I promise
That neither life nor death shall part me from you.
God has given holy laws as the rule of your life
I do here willingly put my neck under your yoke, to carry your burden.
All your laws are holy, just, and good.
I therefore take them as the rule for my words, thoughts, and actions, promising that I will strive
To order my whole life according to your direction,
And not allow myself to neglect anything I know to be my duty
The almighty God searches and knows your heart
O God, you know that I make this covenant with you today
Without guile or reservation
If any falsehood should be in it, guide me and help me to set it aright.
And now, glory be to you, O God the Father,
Whom I from this day forward shall look upon as my God and Father.
Glory be to you, O God the Son
Who have loved me and washed me from my sins in your own blood, and now is my Savior and
Redeemer, Glory be to you, O God the Holy Spirit,
Who by your almighty power have turned my heart from sin to God.
O mighty God, the Lord Omnipotent, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, you have now become my Covenant Friend.
And I, through your infinite grace, have become your covenant servant.
So be it.
And let the covenant I have made on earth be ratified in heaven.